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Free E-mail advice, support, guidance all week long
Posted by: | CommentsThis is my first week back after a crazy vacation in Thailand and the avoidance of the death trap at the Taj in India. So with charitable spirit and gratefulness for life and family I will offer email support for free all week. Feel free to contact me via the contact page on here and I will get back to you quickly with some great totally free coaching and consulting support all week long.
Happy Holidays!
Shellee Hale
Appreciation shifts perspectives and solves problems
Posted by: | CommentsAppreciation for what we know and have especially during these difficult times will shift your perspective and open up solutions you failed to previously recognize. The challenges and obstacles we face during hardships need influence of gratefulness and complete appreciation there is good in almost everything. The tighter we hold on to things the more difficult it is to accept circumstances beyond our control, so start with letting go of what you think you know and being open to a new experience.
Many people and entire communities are silently hurting and ignoring options for help with their issues. Their ego’s are blocking options for help. No matter how dire your situation there is help and working with someone who can expose you to those options takes the first step of getting out of the way of yourself and asking.
We don’t have the liberty of driving in circles trying to find a location anymore. The liberty of wasting gas, time, effort as well as the emotional energy is too much with all the rest happening in our lives. It makes more sense to just stop and get it figured out and ask for help. Sometimes it is best to go back to start and begin all over again.
Communication is often difficult when we feel like we failed. Reaching out and asking for help is a challenge for many people not just you. Whatever your situation is, I’m sure I personally could tell you ones that are worse. And even though I can’t say I’ve heard it all I will tell you that the stories I have heard are heartbreaking and personal. So know that you’re not alone and you’ll be amazed what a bit of courage and heart will do to turn things around.
You can start appreciating your own need for help and shift your perspective towards new and better solutions to your problems. I am one of thousands of people out there who have resources to help. If your lost on a road or in life don’t hesitate to reach out for help. I promise if you have an issue there is a solution no matter how grave your situation.
You’ve also got to focus your energy on achieving your goals and if your blocked don’t give up hope. Pushing through obstacles and appreciating what you have while handling what is challenging will bring new excitement and celebration back to your life. Well-planned actions now can result in both personal and financial growth in the future if the small picture is too grim let’s build a big picture that is beautiful and attainable.
If things are really bad start with a penny and appreciate having a penny and move from there. From now through the end of this year we will provide solutions and options as a gift to any one obstacle you face so do not hesitate to break your silence and contact us.
Job Hunting? Who deserves you?
Posted by: | CommentsLooking for work make a list of who deserves you? Now that you have a list learn everything you can about the company, their employees and their mission and make sure you still believe they would make a mistake not hiring you. Once you have determined they do deserve you it is time to go after what you want.
Start with your family, friends and contact list including recruiters to see who may have a connection within the corporation your seeking employment and start campaigning. Once you have exhausted those efforts it doesn’t hurt to start cold calling. Make sure that your name is on the short list and in front of them at decision time. Don’t ease up on your efforts even if you have to take something else short-term to meet your immediate needs.
Be persistent without being a nuisance. This is best done by strategizing ahead of time. Develop a plan, talk it over with your mentor, coach or recruiter and stick with it until you have proven that your target companies deserve you and you will make a positive difference to their bottom line. Build a business plan for this dream job and even a job description if it doesn’t exist, don’t give away your entire hand but intrigue them enough to call you in to talk more about the ideas you sent over.
I often say that one of the most important persons in a company is the one answering the phone. In recent years the automated phone answering has driven people nuts. In fact there are websites that give phone numbers and extensions to help you get to a real person. The practicality of this may have been necessary but the impersonalness of it has been irritating. Getting a real person on the phone when you call a company, one who is friendly and helpful and knows exactly where to direct the call and is able to answer your questions is a missing element that has added to the disconnect in this digital society. We need to start connecting again.
So, when your answering your own phone answer it well and professionally at all times. If someone is irritating you with a solicitation say thank you, but no thank you – it just might be a bait to see how you act on the phone.
This is a numbers game so make sure you have some options. The more options you have (that you can manage) the better your chances. What is your conversion rate on interviews? Most my clients have a 100% conversion rate. If they land an interview they get hired. What is it that gives them the edge over others? Preparation, practice and confidence. They know before they go into the interview that the company they want to work for deserves them and they can easily convey that message because of the preparation work they have done. These well prepared clients captivate when they get in front of the goal and their confidence and homework empowers and imresses their audience and they score.
Now make a list, write the detailed description of your dream job and know you will land it!
Does your strategy plan need a Coach?
Posted by: | CommentsThe success of your strategy plan could be dependent on the right Coach being in place for you. Having a fresh, intuitive, experienced Coach will guarantee that everyone is on the same page with the vision, action plan and desired result. Delegating some of the leadership responsibilities to a outside party (the Coach or assistant Coach) will benefit all aspects of the planning process and relieve conflict. In many cases my clients have had brilliant ideas and had a great support staff but the plan was not getting done and by just making a few adjustments to people on the team’s responsibilities we opened the avenue to success.
As a Coach working with strategic plans I tend to work fast as I value my time and my clients. Brining in a Coach like myslef will stimulate your staff and leadership and begin the inspirational process to get your strategy plan working. Great ideas are all over the place just sitting there not getting done, don’t let that happen to you bring in an experienced Coach to take your idea over the finish line.
Several major publications have written about the value of having a Coach, CNN.com, AskMen.com, Fortune are a few good articles supporting the reasons to hire a good Coach.
