Archive for Clear Intentions
Accountability
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Holding yourself accountable for your actions is the first step in recovering from any less than optimal situation. By knowing your part in each event that happens in your life, and by becoming aware of your choices that resulted in your experience, you will have the tools needed to reshape your future.
Honesty and Integrity is the foundation of accountability. You can live a life blaming others and continuing to be a victim of circumstance or you can become accountable and own your part in the events that have taken place in your life.
A very simple task that can help you identify your part is to inventory your experiences and resentments. Then acknowledge what those things affected in your life. After writing out the blame game you can now look at the list from a different perspective, and include what decisions you made in each of these events.
Most of us have, at one time or another, denied responsibility for circumstances in our lives. Many of us have gone on to believe the lies, and have even warped the truth to best fit our description of events in order to convince others – and ourselves – we were victimized, and it was not our fault.
It is sometimes necessary to clean the plate and move on. Give up the truth and own your part by being completely honest about a situation to those directly affected. When you take the time to correct past mistakes where you failed to be accountable you release the hold on you that comes with covering up the truth and continuing with the deceit.
Sometimes accountability is not just about the past. As we choose goals and desires for our future, setting intentions and holding ourselves accountable for the actions that must be taken to achieve those goals is vital to success. And it’s work. I believe adhering to the following principles helps us be accountable and, imminently, successful
- Assign yourself daily tasks.
- Don’t back out of your commitments.
- Consider logical consequences and be prepared.
- Model people with responsible behavior.
- Choose a person to help hold you accountable.
What makes someone a good decision maker?
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Risk vs. Rewards
Successful business leaders tend to be very observant and are exceptionally good at decision-making. Part of what makes them good at making the right decision quickly is their education and past experiences. A business-savvy executive acts fast, but not without clear intentions and strategic thought.
Your past experiences, direct and indirect, is the raw material you use to make smart, strategic decisions. For this reason, it is very important to be fully vested in all that you do, hear and see. Those who pay attention and “live in the present” tend to be better decision makers.
If you missed important information in a previous conversation or meeting, don’t try to work around it. Go to the source and ask questions. The ensuing conversation will not only fill in the missing data, but it may lead to other insights that would otherwise be missed. Invite an opinionated friend over to strategize. Plenty of great ideas come from thought-provoking conversations. Once you decide to take your idea to the next level, the strategies below can help you turn your idea into a successful venture:
- Self Confidence – having a confident demeanor will captivate your audience
- Conviction – believing in your message will influence others to do the same
- Education – knowing your subject matter as well as your competition’s products and services will give you an edge in business as well as the ability to answer pointed questions.
- Follow through – it is not enough just to make a sale. Follow through on your commitments and promises. Delivery and service after money has changed hands is key to a happy, and long-term, client.
Even the best decison makers occasionally have to change course midstream. Don’t be afraid to re-evaluate when new information is available. If there is too much to risk for the reward, then make the decision not to proceed. If you find you are unable to provide what you promised, partner with someone who can help and immediately provide a time frame to your clients. Having an unhappy client can set back your business and recovery can be very slow.
Health and Fitness
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I believe that nothing in life is worth more than our own health and fitness and that is why I chose one of the best programs I know of to take me on the journey to getting fit in 2009.
When Life Throws You a Curve Ball
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Not all things are predictable, nor are we prepared for everything that arrives in our life. When thrown a curve ball in life it is important to gather the facts and consider your options before responding. Moving away from the emotional response is key to making a good decision when you have to deal with an unexpected circumstance.
When your life is in order, you are less likely to be thrown off balance by events out of your control. It is much easier to handle hurdles when you have been taking care of business along the way.
If you encounter a catastrophic event, having a close support system in place will be beneficial. Whether it be a personal or a professional setback, the right people and resources will give you strength when you are weakened.
The Curve Ball Notebook:
Keep a notebook handy with the all the important information in your life including the names and phone numbers of those you may need to contact in an emergency. Consolidating this information in one handy place will reducing the stress and time it takes to gather it in the midst of a crisis. No one wants to spend time looking for a phone or account number while they are emotionally distraught. Take time to organize important documents properly.
The key to surviving uncertainty is preparation and a strong social support network.
